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After the Course
My Personal Summary
View and print your course highlights — your pledge, your key takeaways, and your homework in one page.
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Printable Guides
Extra Resources
Infographic, 9-tool Listening guide, When Someone Shuts Down action plan — scroll down to access all three.
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Course Outline & More!
6 Modules
All 6 modules have one homework page for each step of PLEDGE. Each one is fillable online and printable in black and white.
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Watch First
Introduction
Meet Mark, hear the vision, and understand how PLEDGEtalk will change every conversation that matters.
Includes
Introduction video plus the six-step roadmap preview and course overview.
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P - Step One
Pause
The first waypoint on the roadmap - and the one that makes every other step possible. Hit the pause button before your emotions take the wheel.
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Video lesson, three reasons to Pause, reflection questions, practice scenarios, and weekly log.
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L - Step Two
Listen
Someone has to volunteer to go first. Not to defend - to genuinely understand the heart of what is being said. The dodgeball move lives here.
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Video lesson, defend vs. understand contrast, listening tracker, and conflict walkthrough checklist.
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E - Step Three
Echo
Only when you can echo back what was said does the other person truly know you heard them - and do you know you actually heard correctly.
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Video lesson, four reasons to echo, the Jim the Politician story, and three-conversation echo practice.
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D - Step Four
Disarm
Three words that drop the tension in the room: "That makes sense." You do not have to agree - you just have to walk around to their side of the table.
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Video lesson, the 6-and-9 table diagram, three Disarm phrases, and a full four-step process exercise.
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G - Step Five
Give
Now it is your turn. But the roadmap only gets you here after you have first heard theirs. That is not weakness. That is strength.
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Video lesson, the turn-switch diagram, the microphone comparison, and waiting-your-turn practice.
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E - Step Six
Engage
Keep going until you are both at a better place. Then engage PLEDGEtalk every day - not just in conflict. This is where the roadmap becomes a way of life.
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Video lesson, Social Capital story, daily practice guide, and full six-step conflict exercise.
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BONUS
Final Video
Connecting All the Dots
One final video that pulls the whole roadmap together - and sends you out equipped to love well in every conversation that matters.
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Bonus video, full roadmap summary, everyday vs. conflict guide, and Mark's three next steps.
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Course Resources
Printable
Companion resources to use alongside the course. View each one in your browser or print it to keep nearby.
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Print and Share
PLEDGEtalk Roadmap Infographic
The full PLEDGEtalk Roadmap - 6 Steps on the Road to Connection. A one-page visual summary of the entire process. Print it, share it, pass it on.
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Module 2 Companion
LISTENING: 9 Tools
Nine tools for doing it well - one for each letter of the word LISTENING. A deep-dive companion to the Listen module.
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Practical Guide
When Someone Shuts Down
A step-by-step action plan for re-starting a conversation when your spouse, child, or friend has shut down, shut up, or shut you out.
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Everything else connected to your PLEDGEtalk journey.
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